Hotwife & Cuckold Connection

Why cuckolding? it is a self-declaration and a lifestyle.

I cuckold my husband because it's time I carve out "personal" time and enjoy my life to its fullest. If I don't do it for myself, I will regret it later.

I enjoy having sex with another man (and occasionally women and couples) while I sexually tease, taunt and make my husband squirm with eroticism to the point he caters and pampers me to the level I deserve. You don’t know the sheer fun, control, or power over a man until you have cuckolded him, especially if you incorporate lots of playful humiliation into it. There, I admitted it.

I like the whole process from start to finish. I love my husband and I include him in on the cuckolding because I want him to feel the same rush of excitement I do. I want to drive him into deeper craving for me. I feel being a good cuckold is his husbandly duty in a modern marriage. I love the whole process. I love the flirting with an attractive man, woman and even couple. I love suggesting a man take me out on a date. I love teasing my husband about it.

I love making my husband prepare me for my dates. I love going on the date. I love meeting and experiencing a new man. I love the first kiss, the first touch, the fondling, the passion, and yes, I LOVE the sex. I love the tormenting and playfully humiliating my husband during and after the sex. I love the power I feel and I love what it does to me. And above all, I love what it does to my husband.

I may on allow my husband to serve me or even service me in some manner while my lover is having sex with me, but that is because it will further my pleasure and that is what I am in the mood for that night. However, my husband is never allowed to orgasm in the presence of my lover. My husband exists to serve me. It is all about my pleasure and my pleasure is enhanced by my knowledge that my husband is aroused and on sexual edge.

Most of the time my husband wears a chastity device in the week leading up to the date to make him overly compliant and serving. It also ensures his senses are heightened. Is it hard on him being frustrated? You bet it is and I love it. What fun would it be for me if he loved being denied? It does make him more willing to do anything is ask, so I love that aspect.

Who do I cuckold my husband with? This is the most important part of the entire cuckolding process. I cuckold my husband with a man that I am very attracted to and one that I know my husband will be slightly jealous of. What fun is there in cuckolding your husband with a man that he approves of? He must accept and yield to my choices. After all I am a modern wife.

I like to date young and good-looking men. I want my husband to feel ever so threatened. I want him to double his efforts in making sure I am happy. The more threatened my husband becomes and the more eager he is to please me. I told my husband at the start of all this I would never leave him for another man and I meant that. There is not a man alive that I would rather be married to than my husband but I am not unaccustomed to using my husband’s insecurities to get him eager to pamper me. I still tell him that I love him and I will never leave him but then there are times that I will tease him mercilessly about how much better my lover is in bed than he ever was.

How long do I date one of my lovers? Pretty much until I tire of him. I make sure the man I date knows up front that this relationship will only be for a short while because I am a married woman. I tell him that I find him sexy and attractive but that my goal is to use him for my own selfish pleasure. I have dated men for as short as two dates and I have dated men for as long as two years. A man usually knows that I am about ready to move on when I start encouraging him to date other single women.

The great thing about being married is that your husband is there to cuddle with or pleasure you when you're in between men. The best advice is to keep your wits and do your best not to get too emotionally involved with your lovers. 

Now let me describe a typical date and a typical cuckold. Most husbands enjoy getting his wife ready for her dates and mine is no exception. That is so great for humiliating the husband and takes him a highly erotic place. Without the pre-date activities, it would be much tougher on the husband to get to that place. My pre-date routines vary. I allow him to bath me, assist me in picking out my outfit, help to dress me, and apply my jewelry and perfume. I add lots of humiliating comments and taunt him about how excited I am about my date. I will allow him to kiss and worship my body as he is dressing me. I love to have him bring me almost to orgasm so I am hot and horny for my date. 

After I am dressed, I will allow him to praise and grope my boobs and ass. I will always make him confess to me  he is excited and to wish me a good time.

If my date picks me up at home, I do not allow him in the house before the date. I don’t want these men making contact. I have my date honk or text me and I go outside to meet him. I usually give my husband chores or suggest he look at porn while I am on my date. That keeps his mind occupied and him on the erotic edge. I'll text my husband to tell him what a marvelous time I'm having and what a great conversationalist my date is. I like to send an occasional picture of me being groped to tease hubby how my date can’t keep his hands off me. Its more stimulating for him when I have a bartender or server take the picture. It adds to his sexual charge he gets when he takes me to the same place and encounters the same servers who realize he is my husband not the other man.

I always inform my husband when I expect to be home. If I am going to be late, I will text him. If I feel that I want sex from my date, I will make him remain in the car when he drives me home so I can prepare my husband. I will go in the house and order my husband sit on the couch and give me his full attention.  I will inform him of my desire to take my date to bed. What I do with my husband depends on my mood. If it is the first or second time I have had sex with this man, I will usually take my husband to the spare bedroom and ask him to remain there with his laptop for more porn viewing. It's not uncommon to ask him place a butt plug in him after I leave so he has the same feeling of being full that I am about to.

I leave his door open so he can hear everything. I know some women have elaborate setups where they run video from their bedroom into their spare bedroom so the husband can watch it all, but at first I just leave the doors open and let his imagination run wild. After my husband is secure, text my date to come in. Once we are done, I simply tell my date it's time to leave.

If I have the energy, I will go tease my husband about what a great lover my date was and what a big cock he had and such things. I almost always make my husband clean me out with his tongue or play in the sperm by fingering me to orgasm. Usually I have him add his sperm to my lover's jizz before I allow him to touch me.

After a few dates with my new lover, I like my husband be present in the bedroom with us. I may tie him up and make him watch. If I do this, I forbid my husband to speak and I forbid my lover to make eye contact with my husband. My husband must watch another man fuck me and he must feel the some erotic humiliation. I will usually make lots of eye contact with my husband while this is going on and I will usually say taunting things to him. Of course I will make my moans as loud as I can for the added effect.

There have been times when I love my husband assist. I enjoy being kissed while my lover is licking my pussy, my clit being rubbed while being forcefully fucked and even having him rub my hair, feet or hands while I am being slowly being filled with my lover's  angry cock until he is balls beep in me. This is only after my husband has proven that he can sit quietly and watch us a few times before I allow him to assist.

Sometimes I allow them to touch each other to push the boundaries of excitement.  It's nice to have my husband warm him up before he fucks me or place him back in when he slips out. Having him lay on him back while I am in a doggy position give him a great view and allows for the warm up.

How often do I date? If I am in a relationship with a man, it is usually once a month. That keeps it distant enough so I don’t become too attached and it gives me something to look forward to. I have a career and a family to tend to I do enjoy texting during the off weeks with my boyfriend. The boyfriend is for my pleasure. Two full time relationships are NOT what I am looking for. I date to have fun, have great sex and to blow off stress.

What are some of the highlights these past fifteen years? When I was forty-two, I dated a twenty-one year old stud that had a ten inch cock. My husband was very jealous and it was the most humiliated that I had ever seen him. I dated this kid for six months because of his cock. I had nothing in common with him and I didn’t enjoy his company after the second date, but you can’t pass up a cute boy with a ten-inch cock.

Are my husband and I closer today than before the cuckolding? Yes, we are but it is a different intimacy. We have bonded on a higher level as we both share in the extra-marital adventures.

If you feel you need focus on your pleasure once in a while and are beyond antiquated social norms dating other men or women is the way to go. Just be sure to include your hubby in all that you do and have fun with it.